Your teenager probably isn’t broken. Something’s just gotten harder than it used to be, and neither of you has the words for it yet.
That’s usually where these calls start. Not always with a crisis – sometimes it’s a parent who noticed their kid go quiet over a few months, or a teenager who only agreed to come in to get everyone off their back for a while. Dr. Lakesha Dean leads these sessions. She’s an ordained minister with more than fifteen years in counseling, and she doesn’t believe faith and hard questions belong in separate rooms.
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Some of this is just being a teenager. Some of it isn’t. That’s usually the first thing we help sort out.
One week a session might be about a breakup. The next, it’s about why church has started to feel pointless, or why they can’t tell you what’s actually wrong even though they want to. We don’t run every teenager through the same format. Some weeks are one-on-one. Some bring the whole family into the room, especially early on, when trust between a teen and a parent needs rebuilding as much as anything else does.
One thing worth saying clearly: if your teen needs a formal diagnosis, like ADHD, an anxiety disorder, or depression, or needs medication, that comes from a licensed psychologist, psychiatrist, or physician, not from us. We’ll help point you toward someone who can provide that and keep working alongside it on the faith and family side. And if your teen is in immediate danger or has talked about hurting themselves, call 911 or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline right away. That can’t wait on a scheduled appointment.
It’s usually a parent on the phone first, and mostly we’re listening. What’s changed, what you’ve already tried, what would actually look different in a few months if this works. From there we figure out how to bring your teen in without it feeling like an ambush – often a short, low-pressure first meeting rather than expecting them to open up right away. After that, pace depends on your family, not a script everyone follows.
A fair number of the teenagers we meet have quietly decided that faith is either something they have to perform or something they’ve given up on, usually because somewhere along the way, asking a real question got treated like a problem instead of a normal part of growing up. That’s not how it works here. Doubt gets talked through, not corrected on sight.
Depending on what’s going on at home, it sometimes helps to pair sessions with our Depression and Anxiety Counseling, Trauma Sensitive Counseling, or a Faith-Based Clarity Assessment to get a clearer picture before deciding where to start.
You don’t need a clean explanation of what’s wrong to call. Most parents don’t have one when they first reach out. Call, and we’ll figure out the next step together.
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Not word for word, and that’s on purpose. Teenagers say more when a session doesn’t feel like it reports straight back to their parents. Safety concerns are the exception — those, you’ll hear about immediately.
Common, and not a dealbreaker. A first meeting can be low stakes on purpose, just to see how it feels, before anyone commits to more.
No. This is Christian counseling. A diagnosis or medication management comes from a licensed provider, and we’ll help you find one if that’s where things need to go.
Often, yes, at least to start.
Not for us. We’re not going to push faith on someone who’s not there yet, and pushing usually backfires anyway.
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